Quizzer Dating relationships Options

[Paul Varughese]

On this point I would like to refer back to the reference of "trust" that you brought up in the first part of your post. I know plenty of 13 and 14 year olds who would be offended by the assumption that they were "on the prowl". I find this assumption to be loaded with dis-trust and a bit of an excuse for lack of self-control. I doubt any coach would use the phrase, "ignore your feelings and don't date", but would take the Biblical stand point of "self-control" is part of the fruit of the Spirit, as a Christian, rely on it! It is not Spiritually healthy to foster the worldly montra of "I can't help myself, I just have to [fill in the blank]." Also, give the coaches a little credit here, it is more than it will complicate the season. Dating can affect your team, your family, your future, your character, your self-worth, your actions, your friendships, your grades, your whatever. This topic is deeper than "I like you do you like me - circle one - yes or no"

Dear Barbara,

I know this thread hasn't been active for such a very long time. I haven't really been on this page in a very long time and I guess I may have missed your response. Sorry about that. Thanks for taking the time to respond in depth. I agreed with most if not all of what you said. I just wanted to refer to the top part that I quoted above because I was mistaken it making the assumption that most people in the begining adolescent age rage are "on the prowl." Perhaps I got a little exaggerated at that part. It is a much deeper issue than I made it seem. Thanks for your input. Again I know it's late but I didn't want you to think that I intentionally left your post unanswered.

Regards,
Paul